I wrote in my last post about meeting with Beverly one of my CD connections from the Vanity Club which was a great chat. Thursday night I met with another Vanity Club sister in Las Vegas Michelle who is local and I have met with her before a couple of times. This is an aspect of belonging to a club that many people don’t utilize when traveling to a crossdressing destination.
CROSSDRESSING RENDEZVOUS
Getting together with other crossdressers is something that many of us accomplish by being a member of a local club. But when people don’t belong to one or are traveling to crossdress it can be a lonely time doing everything alone, eating, shopping etc. A crossdressing rendezvous with another crossdresser or two would be great but where do you start, and what about your security? There are many ways to connect online but you really don’t have a way of vetting the people.
MATURE CROSSDRESSED ADVENTURES
My feet and legs have healed and I am back to normal so like the glutton for punishment that I am the next mature crossdressed adventure starts next week. My BFF Ashley and I are attending a Shenia Twain concert in Las Vegas next week which will be fun.
CROSSDRESSER COMRADERY
I have pretty much recovered from my La Bella adventure and my feet don’t hate me anymore nor do my calves. Four nights in heels takes a toll on everything below the knee but I am not complaining. Looking back on the event I am very pleased with how it went especially the crossdresser comradery I witnessed.
LA BELLA 2024 CROSSDRESSING ELEGANCE
For some time now I have wanted to do something different than has been done with crossdressing events. Many of them both current and past have some sort of optional formal night attached to their final night dinner but none I am aware of ever did a stand alone crossdressing formal dinner. The La Scala Room at the L ‘Opera restaurant was our choice for La Bella 2024.
LA BELLA WARM UP
The Friday B4 on the 26th of April was not like my normal crossdressing outing. It was the warm up for La Bella the formal crossdressing event that we had been planning for almost a year. We had 34 people scheduled for the event with 12 wives joining their crossdresser husbands for the elegant formal gala.
CROSSDRESSING EVENTS
I have written a bit about crossdressing events on this blog and have planned a few smaller ones on my own in the past. I have one coming up tomorrow with people traveling from 5 states to attend which is different from the ones you typically read about. It is a invitation only formal event for 35 ladies that include 12 wives and S/O’s.
INTERNATIONAL CROSSDRESSING
Probably very few of us are in a position to crossdress internationally unless you happen to live near a border of another country. I know people who have done it and read some stories of others but have not yet done it myself yet. I do have a unique situation though thanks to my friend and Vanity Club Sister Nora Simone who wrote an article about me last year for Trans Living International Magazine and is featured in the current issue # 83 with everything you need to know about wearing a ladies swimsuit.
ARTIFICIAL CROSSDRESSER NAILS
Artificial crossdresser fingernails are an essential part of crossdressing in my opinion and I won’t go out the door without them. They add the extra little feminine accent topping off your outfit and truly take your presentation to a higher level. I have been making my own for years and really like the durability of…
CROSSDRESSING SISTERHOOD
One advantage of being part of a crossdressing sisterhood is that if it is based on being a member of a club there is a great security component that goes along with it. For instance, last week I noticed a post on the Vanity Club website from a member who is planning on going to Las Vegas.
CROSSDRESSER STORIES
The other day I read a story on Crossdresser Heaven by a young lady named Megyn who documented her first time out in public. It brought back many memories of crossdresser stories I have heard from others over the years. All of them including my own are remarkably similar complete with fear, paranoia, trepidation and everything else that goes with it.
CROSSDRESSING BELLA’S 3
This crossdressing Bella’s adventure was a little different than most for several reasons one being the hotel and the other civilian encounters. This was my first experience with the famous Bellagio hotel and other than a few issues with my room it was overall positive. All of the staff were very accommodating and gracious in every way so I could not ask for more.
CROSSDRESSING BELLA’S
My latest crossdressing adventure in Las Vegas was different in several ways and most of them good. My BFF Ashley joined me on this trip after a little over a year absence. She gave me my pick of hotels so I chose the Bellagio because I have never stayed there and wanted to check it…
MATURE CROSSDRESSER COLORS
In my previous post I discussed having mature crossdresser colors done by Donna Fujii. I was really blown away the first time with I had it done by someone else because it seemed like my makeup changed when they switched colors on me. This was before Donna did it and I was impressed but Donna…
CROSSDRESSER EYESHADOW
Pretty much every crossdresser I see uses eyeshadow to some degree some very sparingly while others like myself more dramatic. Regardless of how dramatic I go blue is a color you have never and will never see on me. The reason is simple it is because I hate it! Why? Because it does not look good on me and pretty much everyone else from what I have seen.
CHIC 50 UPDATE 2
It has been a couple of months since I last published an update on my CHIC 50 project so I wanted to let you know I have added some new content. There is more information on crossdressing in the 1970’s along with some related context. I also added a 4th page that has been in…
CROSSDRESSER SERENITY
Crossdresser serenity sounds great if you can actually achieve it but life does not work that way. Once you have it life throws things at you that threaten it. To keep it going you need to acquire a particular mindset that will allow you course correct when one of life’s waves throws you off. Years…
CROSSDRESSER’S SO WHAT!!!!!
Fresh off another adventure crossdressing in long Beach I got to thinking how things have changed over the years. When I first started going out dressed completely I knew people were not being fooled so thought it better to not linger in one place too long. Typically when someone clocked you it was a game…
MAINSTREAM CROSSDRESSING
One of CHIC’s goals for 2024 is to venture out to new restaurants the club has not been to before. Last week it was a place called Parker’s Lighthouse in the Shoreline Village area of downtown Long Beach. If you are a Long Beach Grand Prix fan you will no doubt recognize the lighthouse along…
CROSSDRESSED ENCOUNTERS
The Friday before our regular monthly meeting started out very mellow with my friend Sherri and I going out to dinner at one of our Long Beach favorites. I took my normal seat in the UBER car up front next to the driver so I could move the seat forward giving Sherri some extra legroom…
FEARLESS CROSSDRESSER PART 3
I truly looked forward to the Texas “T” party every year because it was such a fun event and you met so many other people like yourself. The Event was moved from the 7 Oaks motel to the Holiday Inn my second year attending. It was on the River Walk in San Antonio where there was…
FEARLESS CROSSDRESSER PART 2
In Fearless Crossdresser 1 I left off with me reaching for the door but omitted that the meeting had already started because and I was late. Not being proficient at makeup was one thing but false lashes really kicked my butt and keeping them on was like wrestling match. I used too much glue so…
FEARLESS CROSSDRESSER PART 1
I get some very nice comments about how fearless I am going out in public anywhere anytime. People think I just got dressed one day walked out the door and it was HELLO WORLD I own you. Nope! That is not my story, in reality I went through many stages just like pretty much everyone….
CROSSDRESSER TOLERANCE
It seems like there isn’t a day that goes by without a news story about transgender people. There are pro and con results from them shaping public opinion in the process. Crossdresser tolerance is being impacted by all of them even though we are not specially mentioned. Like it or not we are locked under…
CROSSDRESSER CLASSIFICATION
What is your classification, crossdresser or otherwise? A better question is why do you need one in the first place? I ask because I see people on Crossdresser Heaven and other places listing their classifications or inquiring of others which ones they should use. I understand why when you are clearing customs they have different…
CROSSDRESSING STYLE
I am in Long Beach California for the monthly CHIC meeting and displaying a bit more color. I just could not pass up this teal jacket when I saw it. The fit was perfect and the cut very flattering and I got many great comments about it. The picture above was taken in the Marriot…
CROSSDRESSER WIGS
I have written a great deal over the years about getting your colors right from the start or as soon as you can to avoid wasting money. You can accomplish that by going to someone like Amy at Just You in Las Vegas because she has been in the business for so long and made…
VEGAS AGAIN 2
The second night of DIVA Las Vegas was the official kickoff dinner and as I said in my previous post I did not take any pictures. I guess the staff at the restaurant were overwhelmed or somebody did not show up for work because everything was slow. So much that many people left before the…
ELEGANT CROSSDRESSING
I just added a new page to my website to better showcase the La Bella elegant crossdressing event we put on last month. The interactions between all the participants was so impressive I wanted to show some more of the pictures we took.
LONELY CROSSDRESSER
The lonely crossdresser title most likely applies or has applied to us all at some point in our lives. In my view it is better today than when I grew up thinking I was the only one on the planet. I did not have any title at all never dreaming somebody else had the same feelings.