Sex After the 3rd Date

Sexkitten has an interesting post about when women are expected to put out.

Sexkitten writes:
Sex After The 3rd Date — Is what men expect, a man told me last night.  Sure enough it was our third date, and you got it, he thought it was time to have sex. I told him it wasn’t going to happen. I had no idea that there was a rule.  I’ve dated men for a month and longer and not give them any sex. If I’m not feeling a man, he’s not getting any. I don’t care if it’s our twentieth date.

And evidently, women who have sex before the third date are whores.  Where can I find the rule book on this stuff? I’ve never had sex with a man on the first or second date, or third date, but that’s because I didn’t feel it. I have trust issues, and fear of sleeping with someone who have a wife or girlfriend that they’re not telling me about. But what if I have sex with a man whom I connect with on a second date? Does that mean I’m a whore?  What if the mood was right?  I say screw the rules on both account.

You know, it’s funny.  This is why I hate dating.  I’ve been in situations where I’ve dated girls for weeks or months without sex.  It is the most frustrating thing in the world!  I have my differences with MINE’99, but one thing he taught back in his ’98 Home Study Course is that dating is for women you are already sleeping with!

Indeed, this is the mantra for most guys in the Pick-Up community.  If a girl doesn’t put out, we’ve learned not to date her.  We look at guys who date women they haven’t slept with as complete Average Frustrated Chumps (AFCs, another MINE’99 invention).  It’s funny, because the whole idea of dating a girl more than 3 times without getting any is so foreign to me now, I just have to laugh at the notion.

I don’t personally look down on a woman if she puts out right away or very quickly after meeting.  Mystery Method is set up to get a girl to have sex with you 7 hours after you meet.  The whole purpose of studying this stuff is getting girls into bed as FAST as possible!  I think guys who look down at women or resent them for sleeping with them so quickly have a fuckin’ screw loose.  I guess it’s a trust thing, where they may think that if a girl sleeps with them quickly, they’ve either slept with a bunch of other guys or will cheat on them very easily.  Meanwhile, they’re all about sticking their dick in the next moist hole they can find.  Hypocricy at it’s best.

The reason I like the idea of only dating women you’re sleeping with is because it really opens the door for great relationships.  I think if a guy dates a woman for an extended period of time without sleeping with the girl, his self-esteem suffers and the woman he’s with won’t respect him — be it as a man or a sexual creature.  Once sex is established, it gives the guy great latitude in developing a strong relationship with the woman.